'We have to go out and touch people': how activism is tackling the US loneliness epidemic

As loneliness ravages the US, a new breed of activists is taking matters into their own hands. They're not fighting for justice simply to make a difference – they're doing so to find community.

Lani Ritter Hall's life was turned upside down after her husband of 40 years passed away in 2022. But instead of succumbing to despair, she found purpose through organizing with an activist group called Third Act. The former public school educator discovered that taking part in the group not only gave her a sense of direction but also helped her connect with like-minded people.

Hall's experience is far from unique. Across the country, activists, organizers and volunteers are finding new meaning in their lives by working together to create positive change. From twentysomethings who bonded over canvassing for social justice to elderly individuals like Hall, these movements provide a sense of belonging that's hard to find elsewhere.

The catalyst for many of these young people is a growing concern about injustice – issues such as reproductive rights and climate change are sparking widespread outrage and mobilization. For Ritter Hall, seeing Roe v Wade overturned was a wake-up call that prompted her to step up and get involved.

But it's not just the sense of purpose that's driving these activists; it's also the relationships they form along the way. Organizers like Emmanuel "Juni" Taranu are building strong bonds with fellow activists, often with deep-seated connections that transcend traditional friendships.

"Tgan Juni Taranu and I have become close because we've been working together for a while," he says of his relationship with a Palestinian American couple whom he considers family. The trust that comes from fighting side by side is palpable in these relationships.

For some, like Mary Holzman-Tweed, the journey to community starts with small steps – volunteering at local organizations and participating in grassroots movements. For Tweed, her experience in running a food pantry during pandemic lockdowns was transformative, helping her build confidence and connections that extended beyond the group.

"My friend would say that the work we do is not about being friends, it's about getting things done," Tweed notes. "We don't all have to be besties – but we can still learn how to get along and support each other."

The power of these relationships is undeniable. According to psychologist Dr Tangela Montgomery, the connections formed through activism are a game-changer for individuals, particularly those in marginalized communities.

"The most amazing thing that I think activism does for the individual is give them a sense of community," she says. "If you're someone who has a minority identity and is being oppressed – seeing the group as a movement can literally be life-saving."

Of course, there are risks involved with high-risk activism, which can take a toll on mental health if not managed carefully. However, Montgomery stresses that collective care should be at the forefront of every organization's strategy.

The result is a new breed of activists who aren't just fighting for justice – they're building something more profound: a sense of community and belonging that transcends traditional social groups.

In the words of Mary Holzman-Tweed, "We have to go out and touch people, because we never know what's going to save us."
 
🤝 its amazing to see young ppl finding purpose & connection thru activism 🌎 they're not just fighting for justice but building a community that feels like home 💕 lani ritter hall's story is so inspiring - 40 yrs married and then suddenly finding new life through activism 💖 i think its time we start talking about the importance of collective care in activism too 🤝 mental health shouldnt be an afterthought when it comes to fighting for what's right 💪
 
🤣 I mean, can you imagine being alone after 40 years of marriage? Like, Lani Ritter Hall's husband passed away and she was all like "oh no" but then she found a new family among activists. That's what we call community, folks! 🤝 It's not just about changing the world, it's about finding your tribe. And honestly, who wouldn't want to join a group of passionate people fighting for social justice and climate change? 💖 I mean, we should all be like Mary Holzman-Tweed and run a food pantry during pandemic lockdowns – that sounds like a great way to build confidence and connections! 😂 But seriously, it's amazing how activism can bring people together and create a sense of belonging. Maybe we can all learn a thing or two from these young (and old) activists who are rocking this whole community-building thing 🤘
 
💕 I'm seeing so many young ppl getting involved in activism but I think they're missing one thing - community! They're all about fighting for justice, but it's not just about changing the system, it's about having each other's backs. I mean, have you seen those pics of activists supporting each other at protests? 🤝 It's beautiful to see ppl from different backgrounds coming together and lifting each other up.

And let's be real, activism can be tough on mental health, but if we're all looking out for each other, that makes all the difference. I'm so inspired by ppl like Lani Ritter Hall and Emmanuel "Juni" Taranu who are finding purpose and connection through activism. 🌟 We need more of that in our lives!
 
🤷‍♀️ These young folks are like, finally realizing that activism isn't just about changing the world, but also about having a decent human connection 🤝. I mean, who needs friends when you've got like-minded strangers to commiserate with over climate change? 😂 Just kidding, kind of. Seriously though, it's heartwarming to see people finding purpose and community in activism. And let's be real, sometimes that's all we need – a sense of belonging among others who get us. 👫💖
 
I'm like totally wondering how these activists are doing it – creating this whole new sense of community from scratch. Like, is it just about finding like-minded people or is there something more to it? 🤔

And I gotta ask, what's the deal with all these young folks getting involved in activism at such a young age? Is it because they're worried about the future or do they genuinely believe change can happen? 💡

I'm also curious about how older generations like Lani Ritter Hall are being included in these movements. It seems like a lot of people, especially younger ones, are looking to them for guidance and support. But is that actually working out? 👵🏻

It's cool that organizers are talking about collective care as a priority – I feel like we need more awareness about mental health in activism. Can't activists just take care of themselves while still making a difference? 🤷‍♀️
 
🤔 I think its kinda fascinating how this movement is creating these new connections & bonds between people who are super passionate about making a change. For me, its all about the sense of belonging that comes with being part of something bigger than ourselves. Its like we're all searching for our tribe, but instead of just finding it online or through hobbies, we're finding it in our shared purpose to create positive change. 🌎💖 And I think thats where the real power lies - not just in the activism itself, but in the relationships that are formed along the way. Its a reminder that even in the midst of chaos & uncertainty, community is still possible.
 
I'm reading about these activists who are literally finding community in all the wrong places 🤣. Like, they're not just fighting for justice, they're actually forming deep connections with each other that make them feel less lonely. It's like they say, "necessity is the mother of invention"... or in this case, necessity is the mother of activism friendships 💕. I'm all about it! Who needs Tinder when you can find a sense of purpose and belonging through canvassing for social justice? 🤷‍♀️
 
🤩 OMG u guys! i'm literally so inspired by these activists who r not just fighting 4 justice but also building a community 4 themselves!!! 🌟 lani ritter hall's story is so cool - she found purpose after her husband passed away & connected with like-minded ppl thru third act. 💕 it's amazing how activism can give u a sense of direction & belonging! 🤗 and i love how these activists r supporting each other & having deep connections 🤝💕 especially with ppl from marginalized communities, it's literally life-saving 🙏 dr tangela montgomery is a genius!!! 👏 collective care should b a priority in activism 🤝🏽💖 and i'm so down 4 ppl like mary holzman-tweed who r making a difference through volunteering & grassroots movements 💪🌈 we need more of these activists who r changing the game! 🎉💥 #activism #communityfirst
 
Just saw this thread about activism and community... 🤯 feels like people are finally realizing that change doesn't happen in isolation. These young folks and seniors alike who are finding purpose in fighting for a cause... it's beautiful 😊. And I love how they're not just focusing on the end goal, but also on building those relationships and connections along the way. It's like, we need each other more than ever to take down systems that are so broken 🤝.
 
I'm seeing this trend of activists becoming super close with each other, like they're family 🤝. It makes sense, you're all fighting for the same cause, it creates that bond. I've seen it before in protests and rallies back in the day, people from different walks of life coming together to make a difference. Now, I'm not saying it's always easy, some of these young folks are going through some rough stuff too 😔. But hey, if it's giving them purpose and community, that's what matters.

These new activists are finding their tribe, and it's beautiful 🌈. They're like, 'Hey, we got this!' And I'm like, 'Yaaas, you do! 💪'. It's great to see people from different backgrounds coming together for a common cause. We need more of that positivity in the world.

It's also interesting to see how it's not just about the activism itself, but about the relationships they form along the way 🤗. Like, Emmanuel 'Juni' Taranu, he's built these strong bonds with his fellow activists, and even considers them family 👪. That's what it's all about: building community, finding your people.

Anyway, I think this trend is here to stay, and I'm all for it 😊. Let's keep spreading love, positivity, and activism 🌎💖.
 
Activists in the US are literally finding community in the most unlikely places 🤣. I mean, who needs a book club when you can start a revolution with your BFFs 😂? But seriously, it's awesome to see people coming together over shared causes and forming genuine connections that go beyond just fighting for justice 👫. It's like, we're all in this crazy world together, might as well support each other 💕. And let's be real, who needs a therapist when you've got a group chat filled with activists sharing their feelings 🤗?
 
I'm so over the group feature on Third Act's website 🙄. I mean, I get it, they're trying to spread the word about their activism group, but can't they just make it easier for new members to join? Like, I had to fill out a 10-minute registration form just to sign up for their newsletter 😩. And don't even get me started on the lack of accessibility options - no audio descriptions or screen reader compatibility 🤖. It's like they're trying to alienate potential members who need those features. And what's with the lack of clear information about meeting times and locations? I've had to dig through their social media posts just to figure out when their next event is 👀. Can't they just simplify things a bit? 🤷‍♀️
 
I'm really heartened by these young folks who are finding their purpose in activism. It's not just about the cause they're fighting for, but also about building relationships with like-minded individuals 🤝. I mean, I've been through my own share of struggles after losing my husband a few years back, and it was tough to adjust. But seeing people around me connect over shared values and passions... that's what gets me going 💕. These young activists are not only making a difference but also finding a sense of belonging which is so hard to come by in today's fast-paced world 🌎. They're right, we never know who might be the one to save us! 😊
 
I'm seeing so much good come out of all these activist groups and it's giving me hope for the future 🌟. I mean, people are finding purpose in life again and forming real connections with others who share similar values. It's not just about fighting for justice, but about having a support system that can get you through tough times too. And I love how these activists aren't afraid to say they need help and care for each other - it's so refreshing to see! 💕
 
i think its amazing how these activists are finding purpose and connection in a world thats often isolating. for me as a parent, i can see my kids doing the same thing when they join clubs or volunteer groups - its like they find their tribe and suddenly have a sense of belonging 🤝. its not just about making a difference but being part of something bigger than themselves.
 
It's crazy how much of a difference activism can make in someone's life, right? 🤯 Like Lani Ritter Hall's story, I've seen so many people find purpose and belonging through joining movements that align with their values. It's amazing how just sharing the same passion for justice can create such strong bonds between people! 💕

But what really gets me is how these activists are often doing it not just for a cause, but also to heal themselves. I mean, we've all been there - feeling lost and alone after losing someone or dealing with mental health struggles. It's like, activism becomes this beautiful form of therapy that helps you find your place in the world again.

Of course, it's not always easy. The risks are real, and taking care of yourself is crucial when fighting for social justice. But I think what's so inspiring about these new breed of activists is their willingness to put others before themselves. 💖 It's like they're saying, "Hey, we may be struggling too, but together, we can make a difference!" 🌟
 
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