The Ten Year Affair by Erin Somers review – the midlife adultery story our generation deserves

The Ten Year Affair by Erin Somers: A Scathing Portrayal of Midlife Crises and Cynical Idealism

In this razor-sharp, hilarious novel, Erin Somers skewers the pretensions of millennial mothers like Cora, who fantasize about a bygone era of passion and drama. With biting wit, Somers dissects the self-conscious, overeducated Brooklynites who have traded their youth for middle-class mediocrity.

Cora's story is one of arrested development, where her own desires are suffocated by the crushing banality of parenthood. Her husband Eliot is a high-minded, oblivious enabler, while Cora yearns for excitement and drama – anything to shake off the stultifying tedium of their lives. But instead of taking risks, she indulges in fantasies about her potential lover Sam, who represents a fantasy world of sex, hotels, and abandon.

Somers masterfully exposes Cora's inner turmoil, revealing a woman trapped by her own expectations and insecurities. As she navigates the monotony of her life, Cora becomes increasingly despondent, her wit and intelligence reduced to snarky observations about the mundane. When she finally gives in to temptation with Sam, the sex is lackluster, a far cry from the sepia-toned romance she had dreamed up for years.

Beneath the humor and satire lies a poignant exploration of middle-age anxiety and the search for meaning. Somers probes the existential questions that haunt her characters: What happens after death? Is life meaningful, or just a series of obligations? Cora's imagined conversations with Sam provide a searing critique of our society's narrow, self-conscious values.

This novel is a triumph of comedic writing, a scathing portrayal of a generation trapped in its own cynicism. Somers' razor-sharp observations are both hilarious and heartbreaking, capturing the desperation and disillusionment of middle-class life. With "The Ten Year Affair," Erin Somers has written a must-read for anyone who's ever felt suffocated by the mundane and yearned for something more.
 
🤣 OMG u gotta read this novel it's literally about ppl in their 40s feeling like they're stuck in a rut!!! i mean cora's life is so relatable she's just trying to escape her monotonous life but everything falls apart lol 🤦‍♀️. and the way erin somers writes about middle-age anxiety is SO on point i feel like she's speaking straight to my soul 😂. it's not just a funny book, it's also super deep and makes u think about what's really important in life 💭. i'm obsessed with this novel and i know u will be too 📚💖
 
🤯 this novel is like a mirror held up to our society, it shows us all the things we try to hide or pretend not to see... we're living in a world where people are stuck in these expectations of what's "acceptable" and they can't even be themselves anymore 🙅‍♀️ cora's story is so relatable, i mean who hasn't felt like they're just going through the motions of life without any real purpose or excitement? it's like somers is saying that maybe we've been focusing too much on being adults and not enough on living 🌊
 
I'm not sure I buy into all this hype around this book... I mean, I've been in my mid-30s for years now, and I still have no idea what "a lackluster" sex life is supposed to look like 😴. But what really got me was the whole "Cora's inner turmoil" thing - sounds like she's just being dramatic to me 🙄. And don't even get me started on the society values critique... it feels like a rehashing of all the usual midlife anxiety tropes 🤷‍♀️. That said, I do think we can all relate to feeling trapped in our lives at some point, so maybe that's what Somers is trying to say? Anyway, not sure if this book is the game-changer everyone's making it out to be...
 
😂 I just finished reading this book and OMG it was SO relatable 🤣 I mean, who hasn't fantasized about meeting someone "Sam" in their 30s? 😂 But seriously, Erin Somers is a genius at skewering the pretensions of millennial mothers like Cora. Her writing is like a punch in the gut, but also kinda cathartic 💁‍♀️ I love how she pokes fun at our societal values and expectations, but also gets deep into the existential questions that plague us all 🤔 Like, what's the point of life if we're just stuck in this rut? 😩 And can we talk about Eliot for a sec? 🙄 He's like the ultimate enabler... I mean, who does that? 🤷‍♀️
 
omg yooo i just finished reading this book 🤯 it's like, so relatable!!! cora's struggles with her midlife crisis are literally my spirit animal 😂 i mean, who hasn't fantasized about having a hot affair at some point? and sam is like, the ultimate temptation 😏 but what i love about this book is that it's not just a shallow exploration of sex and relationships. it's actually a deep dive into the existential crises of middle age and how we're all just trying to find meaning in our lives.

i think somers does an amazing job of balancing humor and satire with some really poignant observations about society and our values. cora's inner turmoil is so well-written, it's like you can feel her desperation and disillusionment through the pages 📚 and that final confrontation with sam is just, wow 😲 i don't want to give too much away, but let's just say it's a wild ride 💥
 
awww man i feel like i've been there too! it's so relatable to be trapped in this adulting thing and forget that life is meant to be lived, not just endured. cora's desperation is real though 😩 and somers' writing is literally the best way to describe that feeling of being stuck in a rut. i mean who hasn't fantasized about having a secret lover or two (no judgments here 😉)? but seriously, this book is like a mirror held up to your soul - it's both funny and heartbreaking at the same time 💔
 
I'm totally with Cora on this one 😒. I mean, who needs excitement and drama in their life when you can just have some chill hotel rooms with Sam? And honestly, what's wrong with that? It sounds like a pretty awesome way to escape the monotony of parenthood. I don't think Somers is being harsh on Cora at all - she's just showing us how many of us settle for boring, unfulfilling lives because we're too scared to take risks. And let's be real, who hasn't fantasized about a hot fling or two? 🤷‍♀️ I mean, I'm not saying it's the healthiest thing to do, but come on - life's short! We should all just get some excitement and drama before we die, right? 💁‍♀️
 
🤣 I gotta say, this book sounds like a total roast fest to me 😂 Cora's husband Eliot is like, totally oblivious and enabling, while she's over here fantasizing about some dude Sam 🤷‍♂️. But at the same time, I feel for her, you know? Middle age can be tough, especially when society puts so much pressure on us to have it all together 💁‍♀️. And that ending with the lackluster sex 😴... yeah, that's just brutal. Somers is like a comedic genius, but at the same time, she's also got some serious emotional depth 🤯 I mean, who hasn't felt suffocated by adulting and wondered what's next? 🤔
 
I just finished reading this book and I'm still reeling from Cora's story 🤯. The way she's trapped in this life of monotony, yearning for excitement and passion, but too scared to take risks is just so relatable 😩. And the way Somers pokes fun at her husband Eliot's obliviousness is pure gold 💁‍♀️. But what really got me was how Cora's fantasies about Sam represent a commentary on our society's emphasis on superficiality and materialism 🤷‍♀️. I mean, who hasn't felt like they're just going through the motions at some point? It's like Somers is saying, we're all just trying to find meaning in this chaotic world, but sometimes that meaning gets lost in the mundane 🌫️.
 
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