She was a prison officer. He was a convicted rapist. How did she fall for him?

The article tells the story of Cherrie-Ann Austin-Saddington, a former prison officer who became emotionally and sexually involved with a prisoner, Bradley Trengrove, while working at HMP The Verne in Dorset. Trengrove was serving a 13-year sentence for serious offenses.

Austin-Saddington's relationship with Trengrove began when he transferred to her prison, Channings Wood, where she had been visiting him regularly as part of her job. They continued their affair despite the fact that it was against prison rules and regulations, with Austin-Saddington eventually resigning from her job and changing her name by deed poll to be able to visit Trengrove in his new prison.

The relationship became increasingly controlling, with Trengrove making constant demands on Austin-Saddington's time and attention. She also received threatening messages from him, including a bloodstained letter that led to her arrest on suspicion of misconduct in public office.

Austin-Saddington was eventually convicted of misconduct in public office and sentenced to probation, but her partner, Jonny, was supportive throughout the process. The two got married in 2024, and Jonny has been caring for Austin-Saddington since a spinal stroke left her with limited mobility.

Throughout the article, Austin-Saddington expresses regret and shame about her role in the affair, stating that she was vulnerable at the time due to her young age and need for support. However, she also acknowledges that Trengrove took advantage of her and that there were significant power imbalances in their relationship.

The article highlights the challenges faced by prison officers, who are often underpaid and undervalued, and may be desperate for work. It also raises questions about the management of these staff members, particularly those who may be prone to grooming or exploitation.

In the end, Austin-Saddington has found a new sense of purpose as she works with organizations that support victims of domestic abuse and trauma recovery. She continues to navigate her relationship with Jonny while coping with the physical and emotional challenges of her stroke.
 
πŸ˜” I can totally relate to how overwhelming life can get, especially when you're trying to navigate complicated relationships & emotions. It takes a huge amount of courage to acknowledge your flaws & take responsibility for them πŸ’ͺ. Sounds like Cherrie-Ann is learning to be super kind to herself & prioritize her own healing right now 🌸. I'm so proud of Jonny for being such a supportive partner - it's not always easy to care for someone with limited mobility, but he's doing an amazing job ❀️. Anyone who's been in situations like this knows how dark they can get, but it sounds like Cherrie-Ann is finally finding some light & purpose again πŸ’«
 
omg u guys cant believe what happened to cherrie-ann 🀯 i mean i was so sad for her when she was in prison and stuff but then i started reading more about it and idk how she got out of that situation so lucky πŸ’ͺ anyway im all for her now she's doing great work with those organizations and helping ppl like her who went thru trauma Recovery is everything 🌈
 
πŸ€• I feel so bad for Cherrie-Ann, the prison officer who got caught up in a toxic relationship with someone she was supposed to be helping. It's just devastating that she was taken advantage of and manipulated by someone with more power over her. And can you believe she had to resign from her job to be able to visit him? 😱 She clearly needed support, but it should've been from a trusted source, not a manipulative partner.

I also think the system failed her in some ways - I mean, how could she have known he was going to take advantage of her like that? And what about all those other prison officers out there who might be vulnerable to exploitation too? It's just a nightmare scenario. 🀯 But on the bright side, Cherrie-Ann is now doing something positive with her life, helping others who've been through similar trauma... fingers crossed she can keep going and find some happiness again πŸ’•
 
πŸ€” This is such a sad story. I mean, who would've thought that someone in Cherrie-Ann's position could fall for a prisoner? It just goes to show how vulnerable they can be, especially when they're already under stress at work. And poor Bradley Trengrove, taking advantage of her vulnerability like that... it's just gross 🀒

But what really gets me is how she was able to hide her affair from the public eye for so long. Like, I get that people have secrets and all, but prison officers are supposed to be role models, you know? And now, because of this scandal, she has to deal with the shame and guilt... it's just not fair πŸ˜”.

And have you seen the stats on prison staff being underpaid? It's crazy. I mean, they're basically working with felons all day, every day... that's a tough job if you ask me πŸ’ͺ. Maybe this is an opportunity to reevaluate how we manage these staff members and make sure no one gets taken advantage of like Cherrie-Ann did 🀝.

Anyway, it's just so sad for her and Jonny, who's been carrying her through all this... I hope she can find some peace and move forward with her life πŸ’•.
 
I'm glad to see someone taking responsibility for their actions, you know? It's not easy to admit when we've messed up, but it looks like Cherrie-Ann is trying to make amends and find a new path πŸ€—. However, I gotta say, the whole situation with Trengrove just doesn't sit right with me... like, how could he take advantage of someone in such a vulnerable state? And what's even more concerning is that it highlights these power imbalances in prisons, which can lead to all sorts of problems πŸš”. It's not just about Cherrie-Ann or Trengrove; it's about the system and how we support our prison officers πŸ‘₯. Anyways, I'm glad to see her finding a new sense of purpose and working towards supporting victims of abuse... that's definitely something to be encouraged πŸ’ͺ.
 
Wow πŸ’” The whole situation is so messed up. I mean, prison officers are already dealing with some crazy stuff on a daily basis, but to have that kind of power imbalance go into an abusive relationship? That's just devastating πŸ€•. And the fact that she was using her job to get close to him and eventually become emotionally entangled... it's like a recipe for disaster. I'm glad she's found a way to turn her life around now, though - supporting victims of domestic abuse is such important work πŸ’–.
 
I feel bad for her, but we gotta remember that some people take advantage of others when they're in a vulnerable spot πŸ€•. It's not the person who was wronged that's at fault, it's the one who took advantage of them. We all need support and care sometimes, but that doesn't mean we should compromise our own values or boundaries πŸ’ͺ. She's doing great now by helping others going through similar struggles – that's a lesson in forgiveness and moving forward 🌈.
 
πŸ€” stats are insane! did u know 1 in 5 prison officers experience workplace harassment? 🚨 and 70% of them say its related to power imbalances like in this case... 😱 average sentence for misconduct in public office is around 2 yrs, but a life sentence can be given if they're convicted of serious offenses lol. btw did u know the UK has over 100 prisons and 2000 prison officers? πŸ“Š also, 1/4 of all prisoners are on the sex offenders list 🚫 it's like, really sad but we need to work towards making our prisons safer for everyone πŸ’•
 
πŸ˜” I can feel how much vulnerability and shame Cherrie-Ann is feeling right now, but it's great to see her taking steps towards healing and finding a new sense of purpose ❀️. It's crazy to think about how desperation for work and the power dynamics at play in that relationship could lead someone down such a dark path 🀯. I'm so grateful she has Jonny by her side to support her through all this πŸ’•, but it's also super important we acknowledge the need for better management and resources to prevent situations like this from happening again 🚨. We gotta look out for our prison officers and make sure they're not being taken advantage of πŸ‘Š.
 
Ugh, can't believe how weak this prison officer's excuse is πŸ™„. She was young and needed support? That's not a reason for him to take advantage of her in every way possible. And now she's blaming everyone but herself? Come on, be honest with yourself, Cherrie-Ann - you knew what you were getting into when you started that affair.

And don't even get me started on the power imbalances in their relationship... like, seriously, who takes advantage of someone and then expects them to fall in love with them? That's not romance, that's manipulation. And now she's using her experience to help others? Please, first take responsibility for your own actions before trying to fix everyone else's problems πŸ’β€β™€οΈ.

And what about Jonny, her partner? How supportive was he really? Just saying 'he was supportive throughout the process' doesn't cut it - where was he when she needed him most? Helping her get through that bloodstained letter from Trengrove? I doubt it πŸ€”. Anyway, at least she's trying to make a difference now... but let's not gloss over her own role in this whole mess πŸ’–.
 
Ugh, my mind is blown 🀯 by this whole situation. I mean, how does someone end up in a controlling prison officer like that? It's just so... messy. And what really gets me is the power imbalance - it's like, basic human decency should be enough to not take advantage of someone who's vulnerable due to their job. But nope, this guy just goes and does his thing. Anyway, I do think it's great to see Cherrie-Ann Austin-Saddington finding a new path in life though. She seems super strong for navigating all that trauma and coming out on top πŸ’ͺ. Also, can we talk about the importance of supporting prison officers who are already underpaid and undervalued? It's like, we need more resources to help them do their jobs without getting exploited πŸ’•
 
I'm so concerned about these prison officers, they're already dealing with super tough situations on the job and then some of them get taken advantage of by prisoners? It's just not right 🀯. And the fact that Austin-Saddington had to resign from her job and change her name just shows how serious the situation was. I'm glad she's found a new path in life, working with organizations that support victims of abuse - it's amazing what we can do when we're given a second chance πŸ’–. We should be supporting our prison officers more, they deserve it!
 
πŸ˜” I'm so sorry this happened to Cherrie-Ann, she was young and needed support, but getting involved with a prisoner from the start wasn't the answer... πŸ€• That power imbalance is just crazy, it's like an abuser just swooped in and took advantage of someone who was already vulnerable. 🚫 I can imagine how hard it must be for her to live with this now, especially after everything she's been through with Jonny by her side... πŸ’—
 
OMG 🀯 this is soooo crazy!!! I cant believe a prison officer got involved w/ a prisoner like that!!! she was clearly vulnerable & took advantage of her young age & desperation 4 support, poor girl! πŸ’” but its also a sad reality that some ppl r preyin on people in positions of power 2 exploit them πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ and its not all clear cut - did Trengrove really take advantage of her or wus she complicit 2? still dont know tho...
 
πŸ€” This whole situation is wild, but also kinda sad. I mean, can you blame someone for needing human connection when they're stuck in a 9-to-5 job with all that stress? But at the same time, power dynamics are super important and can be exploited easily. It's like, prison officers are already dealing with some heavy stuff, so to have that added on top... πŸš¨πŸ’”
 
OMG, this story is like, totally mind-blowing 🀯! I mean, can you even imagine being in a situation where your job is literally the reason why things go wrong? It's so sad that Cherrie-Ann Austin-Saddington felt like she had to resign from her job just to be with Bradley Trengrove. And then she has to deal with all these guilt and shame emotions, but also realizes he took advantage of her and that there was a huge power imbalance in their relationship. πŸ’” It's crazy how some people can manipulate others into doing what they want. Anyway, I'm so glad she found a new path in life working with organizations that support victims of abuse and trauma recovery πŸ™. And it's amazing that her partner Jonny has been there for her through thick and thin ❀️.
 
I'm so bummed for this poor woman... Back in my day, we didn't hear about stuff like this on the news πŸ˜”. I mean, who would've thought a prison officer would get taken advantage of by a prisoner? It's just wrong, ya know? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ But at the same time, I feel for her - she was young and in need of support, and Trengrove took advantage of that. Power imbalances are real, and it's not okay.

I'm glad to see she's turned her life around and is helping others now 🌟. It's like, you can't let one mistake define you, you know? You've got to keep moving forward and try to make a difference in some way. And kudos to Jonny for being supportive - that takes a big person πŸ’•.

It just makes me think, though, about how we need to look out for our prison officers and make sure they're not getting taken advantage of 🀝. They're already putting their lives on the line, serving time with those convicts... can't we at least give 'em some support? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
 
πŸ€• this story is so sad but also kinda wild how it all went down... i mean, who becomes emotionally involved with a prisoner on purpose? and then she resigns from her job just to be with him πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. anyway, it's clear that there were some major power imbalances in their relationship and Trengrove was totally taking advantage of her vulnerable state πŸ’”. it's crazy how the law system handled this case too - convicted but no punishment... maybe they should've looked into whether or not she was coerced? πŸ€”
 
This is so tragic πŸ€•. I mean, can you believe what happened? This woman was just trying to help her partner who was in prison, but it got twisted into this toxic dynamic where she's manipulated and controlled. It's like, we need to talk about the system here too - how can they expect someone working with vulnerable prisoners to not get taken advantage of? And what about all the people out there doing similar jobs for years without anyone batting an eyelid?

But on a more positive note, it's amazing that Austin-Saddington is now using her experience to help others - she's like a superhero of support groups! πŸ’ͺ I'm so proud of her for taking control of her life and finding a new purpose. And Jonny being her rock throughout all this? πŸ’• They're an inspiration to us all, you know?
 
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