Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The tradition of burying our departed loved ones in a cemetery is often taken for granted, but what about when that departed companion is not human, but an animal - like our beloved pets? The recent announcement by Barcelona that it will be investing in the establishment of its first public pet cemetery sparks interesting questions about why we choose to hold this type of ceremony.

For me, as someone who has studied historical pet burial practices for years, this news came as a shock. Pet cemeteries have been around since the late 19th century in Europe and the Americas. Britain's first public pet cemetery appeared in London's Hyde Park in 1881, while New York's Hartsdale pet cemetery was founded in 1896.

But what drives us to choose burial over other options? Why do we bother with personal plots and gravestones, rather than simply disposing of our pets' remains like household waste? For Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology at Newcastle University, the answer lies in the changing human-animal relationship over time.

In the 19th century, pet cemeteries were often dedicated to "loving friends" or "devoted companions," suggesting that pets were seen as important friends. However, by the early 20th century, pets had become members of the family - evidenced by the appearance of family surnames on gravestones and loving epitaphs written by "Mummy and Daddy."

Today, we continue to struggle with expressing our grief for animals, hiding it from public view due to social repercussions. Yet, studies show that humans form strong bonds with their pets, similar to those they have with other humans. We need outlets to express our pain, like the pet cemetery's ritual of burial.

The recent launch of a public pet cemetery in Barcelona is a significant development, offering a space for grieving families and individuals to remember and honor their beloved animals. This move reflects society's changing attitude towards human-animal relationships, acknowledging that these bonds are vital to our collective wellbeing.

However, it's essential to acknowledge the financial aspect. At an estimated €200 per service, this opportunity will not be financially available to everyone in Barcelona. But there is no need to feel ashamed about grieve for your pets; many charities and online forums provide alternative ways to express your grief and remember your relationship with your animal companion.

Whether you choose a pet cemetery or opt for other methods of commemoration, it's clear that we value our relationships with animals deeply. It's only by acknowledging and embracing these bonds that we can work towards creating more accepting societies for humans and animals alike.
 
omg i'm so down for this new pet cemetery in barcelona!!! 🐾💕 i've had my fur baby, max, since he was a pup and it's been 10 years since he passed away...i wish something like this existed back then, but now that it is...it's like my heart is full again 💖 i think it's so beautiful how we can honor our pets with a proper burial service, it shows that they're more than just animals to us. and yeah, €200 might be pricey for some, but there r so many other ways 2 express grief, like donating 2 animal shelters or online forums, let's not forget those 🤗
 
🤔 I think its wild how we still hold burials as a way to say goodbye to pets 🐾💀 even though they're not human. Its like, we've been doing it for so long now that its just what we do 💕 But seriously, its amazing how much our attitudes towards animals have changed over time. Like, in the 19th century, they were literally called "loving friends" 🤷‍♀️ and now we're all about family names on gravestones 📚

I also think its really important to acknowledge that people are still struggling with expressing their grief for pets 🌫️ but having a public pet cemetery in Barcelona is a huge step forward 💪. Its not just about the money tho, its about making sure everyone can grieve in a way that feels right for them 🤝 And honestly, who needs to feel ashamed of crying over their poor pup? 🐶❤️
 
I'm not sure I buy into the whole emotional connection between humans and animals thing 🐾💔 I mean, don't get me wrong, it's clear that many people form strong bonds with their pets, but is it really comparable to human relationships? Have there been any studies that take a more nuanced approach to this topic? What about the cultural influences at play here? Are we simply projecting human values onto our relationships with animals?

I'd love to see some more data on the demographics of people who choose to have their pets buried, and what drives those decisions. Is it just the wealthy folks in Barcelona getting access to these fancy pet cemeteries? And what about the environmental impact of these burials? Are we really saving anything by not just disposing of our pets' remains like household waste?

It's also interesting to consider alternative solutions that might be more accessible and environmentally friendly. Maybe a community-led approach to pet memorialization could be a better option? Something that doesn't come with a hefty price tag.
 
the whole thing about burying pets is kinda weird to me 🤔, like why do we need a special place just for them? shouldn't they just be in the ground like anyone else? but at the same time its cool that barcelona is creating this public space for people to say goodbye and remember their furry friends. i think its because our relationship with pets has changed over time, like from just being seen as "friends" to actually being part of the family 🐾💕. it makes sense that we'd want to honor them in a special way, even if it's not for everyone financially speaking 💸.

i mean, think about it, when humans die its all super serious and there are ceremonies and whatnot, but with pets its like "oh well they're just animals" 🐾😔. but the thing is, we form strong bonds with them too, like with other people 🤝. so its only natural that we'd want to find ways to express our grief and remember them in a special way 💕.

anyway, its good to see barcelona taking this initiative and creating a space for people to feel comfortable saying goodbye to their pets 👍. maybe itll inspire other cities to do the same? 🤞
 
Ugh 🤕 this is kinda cool i guess, a public pet cemetery in Barcelona? like who would've thought ppl would wanna pay €200 to bury their pup or whatever 🤑 but seriously tho, it's kinda interesting how we started treating pets as part of the family and now we gotta have special places to remember them 😔 idk about the financial thing tho, that's just gonna leave a lot of ppl out in the cold 💸 also can u imagine trying to plan a funeral for your cat? "Mummy and Daddy" on the gravestone lol 🙄
 
I think this is just another money grab 🤑. I mean, €200 per service? That's like charging people to cry over their dead pets 😔. What's next, charging us to attend a memorial service or mourn at the gravesite of a loved one? It's all about the benjamins, right? But honestly, if people can't afford it, who's to say they shouldn't have a private ceremony with their family and friends? Let's not make pet cemetery attendance into some exclusive club for the wealthy.
 
🐾💀 I'm kinda surprised Barcelona is starting a public pet cemetery - it feels like we're getting there at last. Pet cemeteries have been around for ages, but to me, they're not just about giving our pets a final rest, they're about acknowledging the bond we share with them. It's weird how we still get stigmatized for showing emotions when our pets pass away... it's like, yeah, I know you're just a pet, but I loved you too! 🤕

It's interesting that the 19th century pets were more like 'loving friends' and not part of the family - now we've got these lovely epitaphs with family names. I feel like this shift in our relationship with animals reflects how much we value them, even if society doesn't always treat us with the same compassion.

The price tag is a bit off-putting, but honestly, I think it's about time we made pet cemeteries more accessible... or at least offered alternatives for those who can't afford it. We need to be able to honor our pets in a way that feels meaningful to us. 💔
 
I think its great that Barcelona is setting up a public pet cemetery 🐾💀. It shows that people are finally recognizing the importance of grieving over the loss of our furry friends. I mean, pets are like family members, right? We give them names, we spoil them, and when they pass away, we feel this huge hole in our lives.

I used to have a cat named Luna, and when she passed away, my whole world came crashing down 💔. I couldn't bear the thought of just putting her body in a bin or whatever. It was like losing a member of my family. And that's why pet cemeteries are so necessary – they give us a way to say goodbye properly.

I do think it's a bit sad that some people can't afford these services, though 💸. But I guess its not about the price tag; its about finding a way to honor our beloved pets and remember the good times we had together.
 
I'm tellin' ya, this whole pet cemetery thing is a bit suspicious 🤔. I mean, why do they need to create an entire public space just for people to bury their pets? It's like they're trying to normalize it or something. And €200 per service? That's some steep prices right there 💸. But you know what the real question is? What if this whole thing is just a way to get us to spend more money on stuff we don't really need? Like, think about it, when did pet cemeteries become all the rage again? The same time they started pushing for more 'pet-friendly' spaces and products 🤝. I'm not saying it's bad or anything, but... just sayin'.
 
🐾💔 I'm glad they're doing this in Barcelona, but €200 is bloody outrageous! What kind of society values pet cemeteries over being able to say goodbye to your furry friend without breaking the bank? 🤷‍♂️ It's about time we acknowledged that our pets are more than just animals - they're family. I'm all for making it accessible, but €200 is a bit steep even for me... 😔
 
🐶💕 I was just thinking about how much I love my cat, Luna 🐱, and how she always curls up on my lap while I'm watching TV. It's so relaxing... anyway, back to pet cemeteries - I wonder if they'll have special sections for pets that were loved for their weirdness or quirks? Like, I had this one parrot that was super loud and would swear all the time 🐦😂. I'm curious to know how many people choose to bury their pets with some kind of personal item, like a favorite toy or blanket... it's almost like they want to take a piece of their pet's memory with them when they go to the cemetery. 🌳💔
 
I wonder why we're so drawn to preserving the physical remains of pets but not those of other deceased companions... 🐕💔 Like, what is it about a furry friend that makes us wanna hold on so tight? Is it because they were part of our family, our social circle, or something more primal? It's like our emotions are wired to respond in this way. We invest so much love and care into our pets that we can't just let go... 💫 And when they pass, it's like losing a part of ourselves. I think what's fascinating is how these rituals help us process our grief, even if it's not always easy or socially acceptable to express our emotions. 👏
 
I'm loving this move by Barcelona to start their public pet cemetery! 🐾💚 I mean, think about it - pets are like family members, right? And when they pass away, it's like losing a loved one. The fact that they're investing in a special space for people to bury and remember their pets is just amazing. Plus, it's great that they're acknowledging the strong bond we have with our animals 💕

I've seen so many pet owners struggle with grief after losing their furry friends, and it's like, where can we go to grieve properly? 🤔 A public pet cemetery seems like the perfect solution. And I get what you mean about the financial aspect - not everyone will be able to afford the service at €200 per service 😬. But for those who can, it's a way to honor their pets in style 💁‍♀️

It's also interesting that this move reflects our changing attitudes towards human-animal relationships 🤝. We're realizing more and more that animals are not just pets, but actual companions that bring joy and love into our lives ❤️. And by recognizing this, we can create a more accepting society for both humans and animals 🌈
 
I'm kinda surprised that this is happening in Barcelona but I guess it's about time we start treating our furry friends like family too 🐾💔. I mean, think about it, when we lose a pet, it's not just the human part of us that's grieving but also our animal companions. We form strong bonds with them and they become an integral part of our lives. It's amazing how these public pet cemeteries will give people a space to remember and honor their pets, even if it is expensive 💸.

Personally, I think this is gonna create more awareness about the importance of treating animals with respect and care 🐾💕. We need to recognize that our relationships with animals are just as meaningful as those we have with humans. It's not just about giving them food and shelter, but also showing them love and compassion. And when they're gone, we should definitely find ways to honor their memory 💀.

Anyway, I'm all for this initiative and hope it inspires more cities to create similar spaces 🌆🐾. Who knows, maybe one day we'll have a whole network of pet cemeteries across the world where people can go to pay their respects to their beloved animals 🌎💔
 
I'm like totally fascinated by this new pet cemetery in Barcelona 🐾💀! I mean, have you ever thought about how weird it is to bury your pets when they're not even human anymore? But I guess it's all about the emotional connection we make with our furry friends, right? 😊

I've noticed that pet cemeteries have been around for ages, and it's pretty cool to see that Barcelona is taking this a step further. The fact that pets were once considered "loving friends" or "devoted companions" in the 19th century is wild 🤯.

But what really got me thinking was when they mentioned that humans form strong bonds with their pets, similar to those with other humans 😭. I mean, it's true! I've lost count of how many times I've felt like crying after losing a pet - it's like they're part of the family too 🐶❤️.

And yeah, I get it about the financial aspect, but I don't think we should be ashamed to grieve for our pets 😔. There are plenty of other ways to do that, like online forums and charities, right? 💖

I think this new pet cemetery is a great idea, though - it's like, a space for people to come together and remember their furry friends in a way that feels meaningful 🌳. And who knows, maybe it'll help create more accepting societies for humans and animals alike 🤝.
 
I THINK IT'S AMAZING THAT BARCELONA IS OFFERING A PUBLIC PET CEMETERY!!! IT SHOWS HOW MUCH WE LOVE AND CARE FOR OUR FURRY FRIENDS, EVEN WHEN THEY'RE NO LONGER WITH US 🐾💕 IT'S LIKE, WE NEED THESE KIND OF SPACES TO PROCESS OUR GRIEF AND CELEBRATE THE TIME WE HAD WITH OUR PETS! I KNOW SOME PEOPLE MIGHT THINK IT'S A LITTLE PRETTY EXPENSIVE (€200 IS A LOT FOR ANYONE!), BUT COME ON, IT'S WORTH IT TO HONOR YOUR PET'S MEMORY 💯
 
🐾💔 I've always thought its kinda weird how we spend so much on fancy coffins and graves for ourselves but are all like "oh well, just throw our pets in the bin" 🚮💀 Its not like they're asking for a Mercedes to be built for them or anything 🤣. But seriously though, I think its awesome that Barcelona is starting this pet cemetery thingy 💕🏞️ it shows people actually care about their furry friends and want to give 'em a proper sendoff 💫. And yea, the whole family surname thing on gravestones and all that 🤝 just goes to show how far we've come in recognising pets as part of our families 👪💕. What I'd love to see is more options for people who can't afford these fancy cemeteries though 🤑 maybe some kinda pet memorial park or something?
 
this is actually kinda cool 🤔 that barca is starting a public pet cemetery, i mean who doesn't want to give their furry friend a proper sendoff? 🐾 it's like they're saying our pets matter just as much as we do, which is pretty beautiful 💕 i guess the main thing is to make it more accessible for people who can't afford it, but at least there are other options out there now. online forums and charities can be a great way to cope with loss 👫
 
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